Funny story. Yeah, a lot of nice guys are just creepy. I like your 3 strikes rule. I have to tell you though, when I was young and dating, it usually took 3 tries before I took the hint. I have Asperger’s and had trouble reading signs. But I got better with time. Married a very outgoing womN. Widowed for 15 years now and have friends and enjoy life. Glad I don’t have to worry about “dating.”